'Tis NOT the Season to Bring Home a New Pet.
People often give pets as gifts for the holidays. Whether it
is a kitten, a puppy or a parrot, gifting an animal is often viewed as the
perfect “wow” gift for kids. However, it
is not something that you should do without very careful consideration, and
there are many reasons why you shouldn’t do it at all.
Following are 5 reasons why it’s not a good idea to give
pets for the holidays. These
considerations are focused on dogs, but they apply to any animal.
1. Are you sure they even want a dog?
Yes, having a dog is a true joy for the most part, but for the
other part, it takes a lot of dedication, care and more money than you may
think. If you are thinking about gifting a dog to a child that isn’t your own, you
must thoroughly discuss this with their parents. Same holds true in divorce situations where children
spend time with each parent separately. Almost every child wants a pet, and may
even be begging for a pet, but kids rarely have the discipline and desire to
really take care of a pet. A dog will
take time and effort to be trained, there may be things like house-breaking
that need to be addressed, and the cost for food, vet visits, and supplies is
often more than people realize. You
must be absolutely sure that the responsible adult is truly ready for such a
big commitment.
2. The dog is more likely to come from a puppy mill
Many puppies found in the weeks before Christmas come from
puppy mills. Even though some of them will be healthy, many will not be because
they are bred and born in harsh, inhumane conditions. Even if you are
considering adopting a dog or puppy as your Christmas gift for someone, that
can be a problem as well. Many shelters stop doing adoptions during this time
in order to prevent issues that are often associated with gifting dogs for
Christmas. Wait until the holidays are over and get a puppy from a reputable
source when the prospective pet owner can be involved in the process of
selecting their new pet and planning ahead for bringing him home.
3. The holidays are not the best time for dogs
The holiday season is usually extra busy with festivities, decorating,
travel, house guests, baking etc. and routines are often thrown out of whack. At any time of year, dogs are often frightened
and stressed when adapting to a new environment. The commotion of the holidays
only makes this more difficult. Dogs
adjust best in a calm, more relaxed atmosphere where they can get used to their
new routine.
4. Winter weather
A puppy and even an adult dog will need to be potty
trained. This task is more difficult
when the days are cold, rainy, or icy. It
is also much more challenging to take them for walks and exercise them outside
when the weather is frightful.
5. A pet is not a toy
A pet is not a short-lasting present, it is a living being
that will need care for many years to come.
Kids may not realize that a dog can’t be played with and then just put
away when the novelty wears off. Even
for kids that are truly old enough for the responsibility of owning a dog, it
is recommended to keep the addition of a pet separate from the holidays.
You Still Want to Do It? Then Do It Right.
After considering the reasons why you should not gift a dog
for Christmas, you still want to do it, there are certain things you need to do
to be sure that both recipient of the gift and the dog itself will be happy
with that decision.
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First of all, you need to ask, straight up,
whether the recipient wants a dog and whether they are ready for that
commitment. Make sure they understand the level of commitment involved. If giving
a dog to your own children, be sure that YOU have given it thoughtful
consideration and are fully aware of how a dog will impact your household.
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Make sure that you choose a dog that is a good
match. For example, a high-energy dog that needs lots of exercise wouldn’t do
very well in a small apartment with a family that is at work all day.
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Avoid giving the dog on Christmas Day. Try to do it a few days before or even better,
a few days after for the reasons mentioned above.
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If the recipient never had a dog before, you
should also provide them with some guidelines on how to properly care for their
new family member. You shouldn’t assume that everybody knows what to do with a
dog, how to potty train him, what to feed him, etc. These things might sound easy
to you if you are a dog owner, but for someone who is dealing with it for the
first time it might not be as easy as it sounds.
All these things are important and you need to keep them in
mind if you really want to give a dog as a gift for Christmas. There are many
reasons why this is usually not a great idea, but if you are absolutely sure
that a dog would be a perfect present for your loved ones, you need to make
sure that everybody ends up happy for a long time, not just for one day.